“Love the Lord with all your heart, and with all your soul, 
                                  and with all your MIND”--Matt 22:37
Firstly, let me preface by saying, I am MAD, so probably I should wait 3 minutes before sending this...but here goes...
There's a video that's going around youtube that's titled, "Why I Hate Religion, But Love Jesus".
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1IAhDGYlpqY&sns=fb
Don't know why it's fueling such a reaction in me, but the more I digest and consider it..the madder I get.
And as I typed my response to this video, I came across this response by Catholic Apologist Jimmy Akin, which is infinitely better than anything I could ever have written (bold mine):
The video is painful to watch for a number of reasons. For one, the  creator–Jefferson Bethke of Tacoma, Washington–is not that great a poet.  He uses weak assonance when he should use rhyme. He has non sequiturs,  so his thoughts don’t flow from one another. And he can be unclear in  what he is trying to say.
I’m not so interested in critiquing what he has to say on an artistic level, however. The main thing is the painful content.
He starts by asking, dramatically, “What if I told you Jesus came to abolish religion?”
This is preposterous, of course. It creates an immediate reaction of  incredulity, and it causes anyone who is religious to wince. Here we go  with another self-righteous, religion-bashing session.
You often hear religion dissed by people who say they are “spiritual”  rather than “religious,” which implies that they are on a higher plane.  Being “spiritual” is set up as a good thing, in contrast to being  “religious” which is either bad or inferior by comparison. For those of  us who are religious, that comes off as an insult.
This kind of claim is often made by people who don’t explicitly  identify as Christians. It’s something that the unchurched or people in  the New Age movement say.
Mr. Bethke does not fall into either of those categories. He’s  working the “religion = bad” concept from a different angle. I don’t  know that Mr. Brethke identifies himself with the “Emerging Church” movement,  but I wouldn’t be at all surprised if he does. His whole manner of  presentation suggests it, and within that context, it wouldn’t be  surprising to find this kind of “Jesus vs. religion” schtick. There have  been elements of that before in certain Protestant circles.
Mr. Bethke’s poem goes down a number of rabbit trails that we won’t  dwell on in detail. The first occurs in the second two lines of his  poem, where he takes swipes at Christians who are also Republicans. He  repeats the politically liberal cliche that they identify Christianity  with Republicanism. While it’s certainly true that people have a  tendency to identify their political affiliation with their religious  affiliation (that’s a human temptation that has been around since the  days of Pharaoh or Caesar, to name just two recent god-kings), his poem  really isn’t the place to go into that.
A couple of sneer-filled lines doesn’t do the subject justice, but  that’s all he gives it since he immediately ditches the political  discussion in favor of his anti-religion rant.
He repeats the cliche that religion starts lots of wars, which is  nonsense. Religion is a powerful motivator, and thus is often invoked in  wartime, but the real reasons most wars have been fought have nothing  to do with it. Instead, they have to do with political control–either  allowing certain political leaders to gain or remain in power (e.g., who  is the rightful heir to the throne) or they have to do with gaining  political control of resources (e.g., land, money, food supplies,  transportation and trade routes) or they have to do with a particular  leader’s ambitions (i.e., being remembered as a great man, or not being  remembered as a weak man). When leaders aren’t being totally naked about  those things, they dress them up with national pride or religion, but  ultimately they are not at the root.
The reason political leaders invoke religion when going to war is  that religion is a powerful motivator that is built into human nature,  which is why religion appears in all human societies. It’s a human  universal, and religion in that sense is not something Jesus  came to abolish. He didn’t come to root the religious impulse out of  mankind but to shape it and channel it properly (e.g., “Blessed are the  peacemakers”).
Bethke’s slam on religion as the cause of war is thus a shallow, sneering cliche that fails to get to the root of the issue.
He then asks why religion builds great churches but doesn’t feed the poor.
Excuse me?
Historically speaking, the Christian Church has been the greatest,  most effective charitable institution in world history! It has fed more  hungry, clothed more naked, and cared for more sick than any other  institution!
And if you know your Bible, as Mr. Bethke seems to, given that his  speech (including in other videos) is littered with insider Christian  lingo, including numerous terms and phrases from the Bible, then you  know that honoring God through architecture is important as well. God  has some rather particular instructions regarding the construction of  the Tabernacle and the Temple. Honoring God in this way is also built in  to human nature.
It reflects the love of God, just as helping the poor reflects love  of man. These two goals are not at odds with one another. The Church must pursue both.
Then Bethke says “religion” tells single mothers that God doesn’t love them if they’ve ever had a divorce.
HUH???
I’d like to hear Mr. Bethke name one person who has done  that. I bet he can’t. And I’m quite sure that he can’t show the  existence of enough people to warrant making this a general slam on the  religious community, which–to the contrary–has been instrumental in  setting up crisis pregnancy centers, creating homes for unwed mothers,  providing assistance to single mothers, and extending care and  compassion to countless individuals who have had broken marriages–and reassuring them of God’s love!
It is unfortunate, but Mr. Bethke has chosen to repeat uninformed  cliches as a way of adopting the pose of a prophet. He comes across as a  spiritual poser who does not know what he is talking about as he sneers  and looks down on others.
There are simply too many things in Bethke’s rant that call for a  response to give them each an individual treatment, so let us look at  the big picture.
What we have here is a rap-battle-inspired slam on the concept of  religion in favor of what Bethke considers to be the truth, the  authentic cause of Jesus.
Unfortunately, the sneering, self-important, self-righteous tone of a  rap battle does not lend itself well to this purpose (not that he’s  actually rapping, but that’s what he’s aping).
It’s true that Jesus did have some stinging things to say about the  hypocrites of his day. St. Paul was similarly harsh with his opponents.  But it’s all too easy to justify our own self-righteousness and  arrogance by appealing to these passages. One is playing with fire when  one goes in this direction.
Mr. Bethke’s rant against the judgmental who put on an artificial  show of piety is filled with both judgment and affected piety. There’s a  moment in the video where he says, “Now I ain’t judging, I’m just  saying quit putting on a fake look.”
Bethke, let’s be honest. You are so totally judging.
Your whole video is filled with scorn and sneer. Each line drips venom on other people.
And as for “putting on a fake look” (a clumsy set-up for a rhyme on  the word “Facebook”), your whole schtick–the rap-battle insults, the  disjointed poetry, the awkward assonance, the attitude of the earnest,  hip nonconformist–the whole thing is as artificial or “put on” as one  could wish.
This isn’t who you really are. Not at your core. This is you giving a performance.
And it’s a performance that, just coincidentally, shows how pious and “real” you are compared to your religious peers.
Who is putting on pious show here? You’ve got some mighty wide phylacteries, Mr. Bethke.
But let’s move past that and get to what really sets people off about your video: The dissing of religion.
What is religion?
Bottom line: Religion is a set of beliefs about the divine and/or the  afterlife. All religions (atheism included) make some kind of claim  about one of those two subjects. Most make claims about both.
But Jesus didn’t come to abolish beliefs regarding the divine and the afterlife. He came to proclaim them.
In another sense, religion is the life and the actions that flow from  those beliefs. So what did Jesus think of religion in that sense?
Well, according to the Bible (James 1:26-27),
26 If any one thinks he is religious, and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his heart, this man’s religion is vain. 27 Religion  that is pure and undefiled before God and the Father is this: to visit  orphans and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained  from the world.
Notice that here religion is spoken of as something positive, as  something to aspire to, and something that can be pure and undefiled  before God.
And it requires things of us. Bridling our tongues. Visiting orphans and widows. Keeping ourselves unstained from the world.
We needn’t quibble about these points, and we all fail in all of  them, but they are things we are supposed to undertake, by God’s grace,  in order to please God.
Jesus did not come to abolish these things.
And because he didn’t, the word “religion” has become part of the  Christian heritage. It is something that has become part of how we as  Christians identify ourselves–something that goes to the core of who we  are.
We Christians have a religion. We Christians are a religion. We Christians practice religion.
So if you are a Christian, Mr. Bethke, if you love the Bible and the  Church the way you say you do in your video, then who are you to  overturn 2,000 years of Christian history and start ranting about how  Jesus came to abolish religion and that religion and Jesus are contrary  to one another.
What arrogance!
And what ignorance of the Christian heritage that has been bequeathed to you!
Now, I can’t blame you for some of that. If your YouTube  username–bball1989–is any indication, you are 22 or at most 23 years  old.
You haven’t been alive long enough to get a broad perspective on  history, and you may well not have been exposed to or encouraged to read  broadly in the history of Christianity.
Being angsty and wanting to rant against the religious hypocrisy you  perceive around you is also often part of being 22. I mean, a lot of us  have been there.
And many of us look back on that time in our lives with a bit of  embarrassment. I know I do. As I’ve gotten older, I continually realize  all the more just how much I don’t know, and how I need to be more careful in what I say and what I claim.
You are also likely to look back with embarrassment on this, only on a  larger scale since you now have almost 10,000,000 hits–and undoubtedly  will have far more than that by the time your video’s popularity is  played out.
Things may seem awesome now. For example, you have a recent Facebook post saying:
My buddy just called me and said he was  driving 60mph down the freeway and a car came up along side him and on  the entire back window in shoe polish was written “YouTube the video  ‘Why I Hate Religion, but Love Jesus” LOL God is good! Man. It’s a craze  right now but He is faithful and He is my judge! It’s all Grace!
But already you are seeing some of the harm that your video can result in, as you quickly followed up with a post saying:
If you are using my video to bash “the  church” be careful. I was in no way intending to do that. My heart came  from trying to highlight and expose legalism and hypocrisy. The Church  is Jesus’ bride so be careful how you speak of His wife. If a normal  dude has right to get pissed when you bash His wife, it makes me tremble  to think how great the weight is when we do it to Jesus’ wife. The  church is His vehicle to reach a lost word. A hospital for sinners.  Saying you love Jesus but hate the Church, is like a fiancĂ© saying he  loves his future bride, but hates her kids. We are all under grace. Look  to Him.
Just as you can’t separate the Church from Jesus, you can’t separate religion from Christ and his Church.
It can’t be done, and it’s foolish to try.
If you want to rant against legalism and hypocrisy then call them by  their names. Don’t go on a futile quest to get people to start using the  term “religion” in an unfamiliar way that is, frankly, contrary to the  way it’s used in the Bible.
Religion is something very, very important to people, and telling  them that Jesus opposed religion is not only preposterous, it’s  offensive–particularly the way the claim is presented in your video.
So ditch the sneer, ditch the mocking, self-righteous attitude toward  your fellow believers, and show some consideration for them and for  their feelings regarding the word “religion”–feelings which are,  frankly, more attuned to the way Scripture uses the word than yours  apparently are.
May I suggest an apology?
source:  Jimmy Akin, as cited above.
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